Want to Save Your Relationship or Marriage?

Description:

Relationships and marriages go through ups and downs, but when challenges arise, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start to rebuild the connection. This quiz is designed to help you assess the current state of your relationship, identify areas that need attention, and uncover ways to strengthen your bond. Answer the following 10 questions honestly to gain perspective on how you and your partner can work toward saving and improving your relationship.

Instructions

For each question, choose the answer that best reflects your current situation or feelings. Keep track of your answers to calculate your score at the end of the quiz.

1. How often do you and your partner spend quality time together without distractions? *

a) Regularly, at least once a week

b) Occasionally, but not consistently

c) Rarely, as life tends to get in the way

d) Almost never or not at all

2. When faced with conflict, how do you and your partner approach it? *

a) We talk openly and work together to resolve problems

b) We try, but sometimes emotions or misunderstandings get in the way

c) We avoid the issue and hope it resolves itself

d) We argue, ignore each other, or let the conflict escalate

3. How often do you express appreciation or gratitude for your partner? *

a) Every day or almost every day

b) Occasionally, but not as often as I’d like

c) Rarely, we’re usually focused on other things

d) Almost never, it’s not a habit in our relationship

4. How well do you feel your partner understands your needs and desires? *

a) Very well, they are attentive and empathetic

b) Somewhat well, though sometimes they miss the mark

c) Not very well, I often feel misunderstood

d) Not at all, I feel like they don’t listen or care

5. Do you and your partner have shared goals or dreams for the future? *

a) Yes, we often discuss and plan for our future together

b) We have some shared goals, but we don’t talk about them much

c) We rarely discuss or align on future plans

d) No, we don’t think about the future as a couple

6. How do you and your partner handle stress or external pressures (e.g., work, finances, or family issues)? *

a) We support each other and face challenges as a team

b) We try to help each other, but sometimes it creates tension

c) Stress often leads to arguments or distance between us

d) We deal with stress separately and don’t lean on each other

7. How often do you and your partner communicate openly about your feelings? *

a) Regularly, we make an effort to check in with each other

b) Sometimes, but it’s not a consistent habit

c) Rarely, it feels uncomfortable or awkward to open up

d) Almost never, we avoid emotional conversations

8. Do you feel emotionally connected to your partner? *

a) Yes, we have a deep emotional connection

b) Somewhat, though it feels lacking at times

c) Not really, I feel disconnected or distant

d) No, I don’t feel emotionally connected at all

9. How do you and your partner handle intimacy (both physical and emotional)? *

a) We prioritize and nurture intimacy in our relationship

b) We try, but it’s inconsistent or feels forced at times

c) Intimacy has become less frequent or feels like a challenge

d) There’s little to no intimacy in our relationship

10. Are you both committed to working on the relationship? *

a) Yes, we’re both fully committed to making things better

b) I am, but I’m not sure about my partner’s level of commitment

c) It feels like only one of us is trying

d) Neither of us seems to be making an effort

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